Women are automatically seen as a sexual object to the man’s eye. A
woman’s intelligence is not valued as much as it should be; her body is what
draws attention, she is solely defined by a man’s desires. Male gaze is the forceful
act of a man looking at a woman of interest. It is that particular awareness that
some women dislike and find this approach offensive and rather uncomfortable. The
male gaze is the way in which women are projected in society or are being
perceived in the real world.
“To be born a woman has been to be born, within an allotted and confined
space, into the keeping of men. The social presence of women has developed as a
result of their ingenuity in living under such tutelage within such a limited
space. But this has been at eh cost of a woman’s self being split into two. A
woman must continually watch herself. She is almost continually accompanied by
her own image of herself. Whilst she is walking across a room or whilst she is
weeping at the death of her father, she can scarcely avoid envisaging herself
walking or weeping. From earliest childhood she has been taught and persuaded
to survey herself continually”
On page 55 of Berger’s “Way of seeing” compares two images that have
similar face expressions. The right image is a photograph from a magazine and
the left image is a well-known painting by Ingres. Both women are posing in
these images with the knowledge that they are being watched. The facial
expression shows that both are alerted and neither of them are smiling.
“She has to survey everything she is and everything she does because how
she appears to others, and ultimately how she appears to men, is of crucial
importance for what is normally thought of as the success of her life. Her own
sense of being herself is supplanted by a sense of being appreciated as herself
by another.” (Berger,47).
A woman has limitations as to how she wants to present herself to the
world. She cannot completely be herself for she is being watched, people will
be critical and judge her every move. To be adored by others, she must follow
the confinements of societal expectations and traditional values while men have
more of a freewill when it comes to being who they want to be.
Berger explains the interaction of a man to a woman saying “men act,
women appear. Men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at. The
surveyor of woman in herself is male: the surveyed female. Thus she turns
herself into an object-and most particularly an object of vision: a sight.”
Women experience so much stress and anxiety to live up to these “ideals”
of what it means to be a woman. Women in society are challenged to reveal their
best selves in hopes of receiving recognition, support and respect. Men are seen
as domineering human beings, men hold the power; they are the bread winners.
Women are considered the opposite; women are degraded by this idea that they
are a sign of weakness. This is where Bell Hooks literature comes to focus,
helping her readers understand the patriarchal structure and how it has negatively impacted how women are treated and viewed.
Work Cited
Berger, John.
"Ways of seeing." The feminism and visual culture reader 38 (2003).
Hooks, Bell.
"Understanding patriarchy." Louisville Anarchist Federation.
Louisville Lending Library (2013).
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